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Huh..It’s been 3 days I’ve finished my last paper for final exam this semester.It was terrific week last week..I’ve got three straight paper on wed,thurs and finally friday.Yesterday,I was listening to my roommates conversation about marriage at young age.I was just listening..And I could just give opinion there and there,seemed like I’m not in the same ‘herd’ like them who have a gf,not like me,single..haha…And the argument was continuing for a while.They were arguing about marriage at young age.One of my roommate was coming up with an opinion that most couple in UIA should get married rather than just being couple.And he suggested the couple(young married couple) can still live like normal student,means live separately at different mahallah(college) and they will still get allowance from their own parents.So what do you think?
And one of my roommate seemed didn’t not like that idea.haha.Seemed he was disturbed a bit by that idea coz he had a gf studying together in UIA,while my rumate who came with the idea~young age marriage~has a gf who currently studying in france.He said that he will get married at early age if his gf is studying at the same uni as he is.My rumate who opposed the idea said most people at this age 20-24 still not matured enough to get married,plus it not as easy as saying just to get married like that.
Ok..enough with their opinion..as for me, marriage at young age is depend on ourselves.Marriage is the big transition phase in our life.So to be married,it needs a very careful measurement being taken of..Means..you should make a decision to get married with enough preparation..not just ‘kahwin terjun’..right?And to be married suppose to be a sign that a son/daughter can stand on their own foot and not being the one who needs support(finance) from their parents anymore..Marriage should be a sign to show people that we are ready to take a new responsibility and also we have to realize that we have to be matured.Matured in marriage can be seen how we try to fulfill our responsibility as a good spouse.I’m not opposing people who get married early.For the generation of our granpa/grandma most of them married at young age.however,in my opinion,people at that time most probably are matured enough at young age,not like young generation right now(mostly,not al).We are living in the world with too much entertainment and advance tech.Most of us are dragged with time unconciously that we had come to the stage of marriage.Marriage at young age also can be a good thing.Sometimes,marriage teach us to be a matured people.I guess so,for example in UIA,most married couple are people who always have a great achievements in their study or in their routine life.It must be a spirit they got frm their own spouse..In conclusion,we will know when the time has come for us to get married.If you has reach that stage(doesn’t matter at what age), just check with yourself whether you are ready for the transition phase in your life and do not hesitate.Just follow your heart.What you believe in.Just remember,marriage is not only about ourself and our couple,but also includes our family and he/her family,our friends and people around us.Uwarghh..I’m feeling sleepy right now.
A couple hours ago, I was having a dinner at one stall people call that place as Malinja.Most probably because it is located on Malinja street.Yeah.As what being told,people did line up to purchase char kue tiaw and nasi lemak..Huhu..I ate both char kue tiaw and nasi lemak.. :p.
It’s still left tomorrow before I’m flying back to Miri..Hooray!!